Robert Foster
I was born in Texas and raised up in California. At this time I’m 72 years old and I have three grown kids. Coming up my parents taught me the difference between right and wrong. I also started to learn what other people believed was right and wrong and were kind enough to share their thinking of what I should know to give me an edge going through elementary school. My mother noticed that I was starting to show and share my new bad habits. We moved thinking that would solve the problem. The rest of the time all through school, even after I graduated at 14 from high school, I became a pioneer, working here and there, not knowing for sure what I wanted. But what I did know was once I made up my mind to do it, it was a done deal.
Most of the time it seemed like I was always trying to make someone else happy. During my 20’s and 30’s I was like a run-away roller coaster. Not being too concerned where it was going to end. I woke up feeling lonely, lost, not knowing who to blame. I just knew things were not going the way I wanted.
In my 40’s and early 50’s I knew a change needed to occur. I knew that I had been in enough storms and that storms make a sailor strong. I understood that no one needs another person’s validation to feel whole. Today I refuse to live inside the past. The past shapes you but does not dictate who you are. There is never a reason to delay something that is clear. I found that truth does not fix damage, but it ends denial. Then it happened, a change that I’m here to share with anyone that has a desire to change their way of thinking, needs hope, or courage. I’m a bridge to a new beginning. I’m one of the people that can tell and show that change is possible. Join me. I don’t have a new trick or game to show, Iwill show there is always hope. Change is available.
My Mission
To help individuals and families break old patterns, build new habits, and navigate recovery with honesty, faith and courage.
I wasn’t always the man I am today. But with God’s help and the willingness to change, I discovered that yesterday’s mistakes don’t define who we become. Today I am now committed to walking alongside people who feel stuck, scared but ready for a new beginning.
If you don’t like the way you’re living…. You are the only one that can change this.
My mother in law said to me “there’s no pot too crooked that a lid won’t fit.”
I’m the person that will help you if you fall down, but I can’t do anything for you if you lay down!
Once you learn to control your emotions. I believe that there is no path that can’t be traveled by you!